today will be better, i swear!

"Today is going to be a better one

There's nothing more to take in

That's going wrong"

it's true it's true! 

i finally did it! it's done it's done it's done!!!

today is just full of happiness and joy that i simply cannot keep in :)

life is good to me. and then some!

first cut is the deepest

“To be mature means to face, and not evade, every fresh crisis that comes.”  - Fritz Kunkel

hiding seems to be most common form of self-protection. it is also the most selfish, most cowardly and most immature form one can pick.

every fresh wound or every deep cut is going to heal itself, eventually, if only you recognize that it exists. 

pretending like you are not bleeding, not crying, not hurting won't help. nothing will ever resolve itself, and it never means it doesn't pain you at all when ignored.

to face is to fear and is also to love. to love better, one must face all that comes with it. 

there is no good without bad, and no love without suffering.

but to suffer is to sacrifce and what love is deeper than that?

bittersweet symphony

"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo May

often times it seems as though we imagine love to be this sweet sweet thing. as if it's made out of sugar and cream, and everything good! but anybody who can bake knows even the sweetest passteries consist of salt, and salt is never sweet.

i like eating dark chocolate while drinking sweet tea. it's like taking in life, love and everything good and bad at the same time. 

bittersweet. bittersweet. only after bitter can you taste sweet.

that's why marriage is about sticking together through thick and thin, in sickness and in health, because only then did you taste the full flavor of magic. 

其实这样何尝不好呢？

不是故事的结局不够好，而是我们对故事的要求过多。

爱情就像两个拉着橡皮筋的人，受伤的总是不愿意放手的那个。

没错！

往往我们都对结局抱着多么大的希望。。。想着它能完成我们一切的寄托。。。

可是结局只能有一个，而且通常都没有神话里那般美妙。

往往最终都是为挣个虚荣心弄得鱼死网破。。。多不值啊！

其实如果我们放开胸襟，就当那故事是故事，就当那过去的已成历史好了。

何必掀开痛苦的面纱，仅为了再目睹一次血淋淋的伤痕，即使它已快结疤复合？

爱情也由如一般。。。

几时有人会想放手？几时有人会想离别？

可当他松开你手时，你也该转头了。。。

爱不能只有一人维持

它本该是两人的故事，那就该如此。。。

尽管很多时候结局都不如我们所料。。。

看着别人的故事，流着自己的眼泪

粉底用来遮掩皮肤的瑕疵，微笑用来掩盖心灵的伤口。

爱上一个人的心理历程是：这个人在你心里的地位从“可有可无”到“似有若无”，最后变成“绝无仅有”。

的确。看到这两句话时真是深有感触。

伤心的时候会想笑，因为不想别人和你一起难过。

总想着就那样一笑而过好了。。。就当什么都无所谓。。。就因其实一切都那么的有所谓。

真正的爱似乎不该仅有激情。。。而更是细水长流。。。

慢慢的。。。然后在不知不觉中就早已入住你心了。。。

有时我们输不起

人与人之间为何有那么多的。。。纠纷？

当离别时我们才得知这些。。。有多么的来之不易？

可那时是否一切都早已过去。。。是否都来不及了呢？

人生可否如此一般？时而晴时而阴。

与其不停寻找不消失的彩虹还不如静静的珍稀着天空变化的每一分钟。